You can even test this for yourself. Ask this question, What caused your break up? If your answer is something like; "we had an argument over who was going to do the dishes" or "we broke up over a dent I put in the car". There are hundred's of reasons you may give for what you Think you broke up with ex over. Whatever you think the reason is for your break up, Pinterest stop right here and go call your ex boyfriend and tell him that your sorry for the dent in the car, you'll be happy to pay for it, you'll be more careful from now on, can we please get back together. or go call your ex girlfriend and tell her that your sorry for not sharing in doing the dishes, it was thoughtless and selfish, and you will help the household chores from now on, can we get back together. Go ahead I'll wait.